52 Proven Stress Reducers

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  1. Get up fifteen minutes earlier in the morning.  
    The inevitable morning mishaps will be less stressful.
  2. Prepare for the morning the evening before.  
    Set the breakfast table, make lunches, put out the clothes you plan to wear, etc.
  3. Don’t rely on your memory.  
    Write down appointment times, when to pick up the laundry, when library books are due, etc.  (“The palest ink is better than the most retentive memory.” – Old Chinese Proverb).
  4. Do nothing which, after being done, leads you to tell a lie.
  5. Make duplicates of all keys.  
    Bury a house key in a secret spot in the garden and carry a duplicate car key in your wallet, apart from your key ring.
  6. Practice preventive maintenance.  
    Your car, appliances, home, and relationships will be less likely to break down/fall apart “at the worst possible moment”.
  7. Be prepared to wait.  
    A paperback cam make a wait in a post office line almost pleasant.  
  8. Procrastination is stressful.  
    Whatever you want to do tomorrow, do  today; whatever you want to do today, do it now.
  9. Plan ahead.  
    Don’t let the gas tank get below one-quarter full; keep a well-stocked “emergency shelf” of home staples;  don’t wait until you’re down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more; etc.
  10. Don’t put up with something that doesn’t work right.
    If your alarm clock, wallet, shoe laces, windshield wipers – whatever – are a constant aggravation, get them fixed or get new ones.
  11. Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments.  
    Plan to arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures.
  12. Eliminate (or restrict) the amount of caffeine in your diet.
  13. Always set up contingency plans, “just in case”.  
    (“If for some reason either of us is delayed, here’s what we’ll do…”  kind of thing. Or, “If we get split up in the shopping center, here’s where we’ll meet.”).
  14. Relax your standards.  
    The world will not end if the grass doesn’t get moved this weekend.
  15. Pollyanna-Power!  
    For every one thing that goes wrong, there are probably 10 or 50  or 100 blessings. Count ’em!
  16. Ask questions.  
    Taking a few moments to repeat back directions, what someone expects of you, etc., can save hours.  (The old “the hurrieder I go, the behinder I get,” idea.).
  17. Say “No!”  
    Saying no to extra projects, social activities, and invitations you know you don’t have the time or energy for takes practice, self-respect, and a belief that everyone, everyday, needs quiet time to relax and to be alone.
  18. Unplug your phone.  
    Want to take a long bath, meditate, sleep, or read without interruption?  Drum up the courage to temporarily disconnect. (The possibility of there being a terrible emergency in the next hour or so is almost nil).
  19. Turn “needs”  into preferences.  
    Our basic physical needs translate into food, water, and keeping warm.  Everything else is a preference. Don’t get attached to preferences.
  20. Simplify, simplify, simplify.
  21. Make friends with non-worriers.
    Nothing can get you into the habit of worrying faster than associating with chronic worrywarts.
  22. Get up and stretch periodically…
    if your job requires that you sit for extended periods.
  23. Wear earplugs.  
    If you need to find quiet at home, pop in some earplugs.
  24. Get enough sleep.  
    If necessary, use an alarm clock to remind you to go to bed.
  25. Create order out of chaos.  
    Organize your home and workspace so that you always know exactly where things are. Put things away where they belong and you won’t have to go to through the stress of losing things.
  26. When feeling stressed
    most people tend to breathe in short, shallow breaths.  When you breathe like this, stale air is not expelled, oxidation of the tissues is incomplete, and muscle tension frequently results.  Check your breathing throughout the day, and before, during, and after high-pressure situations. If you find your stomach muscles are knotted and your breathing is shallow, relax all your muscles and take several deep, slow breaths.  Note how, when you’re relaxed, both your abdomen and chest expand when you breathe.
  27. Writing your thoughts and feelings down
    (in a journal, or on paper to be thrown away)  can help you clarify things and can give you a renewed perspective.
  28. Try the following yoga technique
    whenever you feel the need to Relax. Inhale deeply through your nose  to the count of eight. Then with lips puckered, exhale very slowly through your mouth to the count of 16, or for as long as you can.  Concentrate on the long sighing sound and feel the tension dissolve. Repeat 10 times.
  29. Inoculate yourself against a feared event.  
    Example: before speaking in public, take time to go over every part of the experience in your mind.  Imagine what you’ll wear, what the audience will look like, how you will present your talk, what the questions will be and how you will answer them, etc.  Visualize the experience the way you would have it be. You’ll likely find that when the time comes to make the actual presentation, it will be “old hat” and much of your anxiety will have fled.
  30. When the stress of having to get a job done gets in the way of getting the job done
    diversion – a voluntary change in activity and/or environment – may be just what you need.
  31. Talk it out.  
    Discussing your problems with a trusted friend can help clear your mind of confusion so you can concentrate on problem solving.
  32. Selective Environment…
    One of the most obvious ways to avoid unnecessary stress is to select an environment (work, home, leisure) which is in line with your personal needs and desires.  If you hate desk jobs, don’t accept a job which requires that you sit at a desk all day. If you hate to talk politics, don’t associate with people who love to talk politics, etc.
  33. Learn
    to live one day at a time.
  34. Everyday
    do something you really enjoy.
  35. Add
    an ounce of love to everything you do.
  36. Take
    a hot bath or shower (or a cool one, in summertime) to relieve tension.
  37. Do
    something for somebody else.
  38. Focus
    on understanding rather on being understood, on loving rather than on being loved.
  39. Do
    something that will improve your appearance.  Looking better can help you feel better.
  40. Schedule a realistic day.  
    Avoid the tendency to schedule back-to-back appointments; allow time between appointments for a breathing spell.
  41. Become more flexible.  
    Some things are worth not doing perfectly and some issues are well to compromise upon.
  42. Eliminate destructive self-talk:  
    “I am too old to …,” “I am too fat to …,”  etc.
  43. Use your weekend time for a change of pace.  
    If your work week is slow and patterned, make sure there is action and time for spontaneity built into your weekends.  If your work week is fast-paced and full of people and deadlines, seek peace and solitude during your days off. Feel as if you are not accomplishing anything at work?  Tackle a job on the weekend which you can finish to your satisfaction.
  44. “Worry about the pennies and the dollars will take care of themselves.”
    That is another way of saying: take care of the today as best you can and the yesterdays and the tomorrows will take care of themselves.
  45. Do one thing at a time.  
    When you are with someone, be with that person and with no one or nothing else.  When you are busy with a project, concentrate on doing that project and forget about everything else you have to do.
  46. Allow yourself time – everyday
    for privacy, quiet, and introspection.
  47. If
    an especially “unpleasant” task faces you, do it early in the day and get it over with; then the rest of your day will be free of anxiety.
  48. Learn
    to delegate responsibility to capable others.
  49. Do not forget to take a lunch break.  
    Try to get away from your desk or work area in body and mind, even if it is just for 15 or 20 minutes.
  50. Forget about counting to 10.  
    Count to 1,000 before doing something or saying anything that could make matters worse.
  51. Have a forgiven view of events and people.  
    Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world.
  52. Have an optimistic view of the world
    Believe that most people are doing the best they can.

Source: National Headache Foundation

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Leaving a Photo Legacy

We put off so many important things like creating a will or organizing our most important documents for easy access at the end of our lives. My work as a photo organizer is to make photos easier to find. It is especially important that it is organized in a way that it tells a person’s full life story. All of one’s photos come out at the end of someone’s life and most times it’s the family that has to frantically pick out what photos to use in the newspaper or display at a life celebration (if they’re having one).

The only person that truly knows your story is you…

What’s your visual life story look like?

Celebrating his Presence and not absence

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Program and Memorial rock

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Today, I choose to attend a Life Celebration of someone I didn’t know except through stories mentioned today by his wife, children, and friends.

This is the 2nd funeral or life celebration I’ve attended this year. I am very aware that there seems like a reset button that I consciously press within me that grounds me to the truth of my own presence here on this earthly plane.

I need to start my visual, written, and audio legacy…

Taking care of my 21 grams

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I am not afraid to talk about death. Everyone’s physical presence will expire one day and I think people forget about that. I’ve read articles about the “soul” weighing about 21 grams through experiments conducted by Dr. Duncan MacDougall in 1907. People are still challenging this theory.

Since 2013, I’ve had major mindset shifts and epiphanies taking place mentally, physically, and especially spiritually. I’ve started to meditate again which brought me to a full awareness of my world around me. To challenge and question my “BS” belief systems, I became open and receptive to the living spirit of truth.

I could go on about my story, but to stay focused on the main subject in the beginning of this post, I’ve learned the simple truth of my own life that I had to tell myself…

“Don’t be blind and take care of the things that you cannot see.” Your mind, spirit, soul, thoughts, your consciousness…

That’s all for now. Thank You for reading.

Day 11,385 – Thursday, February 26, 2015 ● 11:17am ● Home

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Re-define what it means to love and be loved in-return.

If you’re not able to fully accept someone for who they are and have rejected a loved one for their decisions, you’ve emptied your empathy bowl and a deeper connection with that person.

For when someone shows up in your life to show their true and authentic self, are you going to deposit love or withdraw and show hate?

Day 11,380 – Saturday, February 21, 2015 ● 5:37 a.m. ● WinCo Parking Lot

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Up since 4 a.m. Good Morning everyone! =)  

Just experienced a young couple arguing in the parking lot of the grocery store I’m at. I’m in the car at a distance and can tell its an argument because the girl is in the car and the guy is outside, looking down at her, hands are flaring up and I recognize expressions from my experience of being a photographer and observing human expressions.

One thing that’s making this experience happen for them is that they’re not making time, effort, or energy to understand each other.

When there is no love , there is no gratitude. When gratitude exists, there is love with understanding.

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Day 11,380 – Friday, February 21, 2015 ● 5:37 a.m. ● Lying In bed

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Up since 4 a.m. Good Morning everyone! =)  

Just experienced a young couple arguing in the parking lot of the grocery store I’m at. I’m in the car at a distance and can tell its an argument because the girl is in the car and the guy is outside, looking down at her, hands are flaring up and I recognize expressions from my experience of being a photographer and observing human expressions.

One thing that’s making this experience happen for them is that they’re not making time, effort, or energy to understand each other.

When there is no love , there is no gratitude. When gratitude exists, there is love with understanding.

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